Mr. Wilson Made it Home!

Mr. Wilson Made it Home!
Mr. Wilson

Monday, March 31, 2014

There's a nut in my yard!

When there is a yard, and a fence, and a little dog named Mr. Wilson what could be just a bunch of grass and dirt becomes so much more. Just looking out the window becomes a more than time spent daydreaming, instead it is time spent watching youthful exhuberance at its peak, as birds scatter, squirrells run for the trees, mulch goes flying and the very air we breathe becomes a whirling dirvish surrounding the madman that is responsible for all the nuttiness.

If only he had somebody like him to play with.

Hmmm....

Friday, March 28, 2014

"Where is Mr. Wilson!," he asks


Mr. Wilson Makes it Home, the book is well into production and the cover has finally been unveiled. I think it's awesome, Mr. Wilson is sulking and won't come out of his crate until somebody explains to him exactly why HIS picture is not on the cover.

"But, Mr. Wilson," I tried to explain, "everything can't be all about you all of the time."
"And why not," he asked before giving his trademark, Hrumph."
"Because, there is a big world out there and lots of things in it, and that's just the way it is."
"Is not!"
"Is too!"

And he put himself to bed. At nine o'clock in the morning.

http://www.amazon.com/Mr-Wilson-Makes-Home-Happiness/dp/1629145734

Tuesday, March 25, 2014

Baxter

A year ago Mr.Wilson was alone, abandoned and hungry. He was a lost soul without purpose, just a wanderer on life's busy highway. Without people to notice him, and see in him the good and kindness that he so desperately wants to convey the spirit within would never have a chance to flourish, and would have remained buried deep within him, begging for a chance to be freed.

We adopted him because we wanted a dog. What we got was a dog, but that dog grows with us every day, and his innate goodness is contagious, and through his example of simple existence for the sake of it we have learned to slow down, breathe and enjoy the moment. Yeah, we're a work in progress, that much is evident, but by seeking serenity, and having a little creature underfoot who lives it, the journey is a good one, and we're making progress. Mr. Wilson may not be perfect, but he's not worried about that, he's a passenger on life's highway now, his days of wandering lost are behind him.

There are tens of thousands of dogs like him waiting for adoption.
Maybe it is time to begin your own journey.

http://www.petfinder.com/

http://www.petfinder.com/petdetail/28526803/

Baxter:




Saturday, March 22, 2014

Uniform Stories


Uniform Stories is a website dedicated to letting police officers, soldiers, firefighters and EMT's tell their stories so that the general public can get some insight into how we think, feel and live our lives in and out of work. I am pleased that they asked me to be their feature blog writer, and will be contributing to the site a few times a month, starting in April.

Mr. Wilson likes the idea so much he decided to be a scene stealer while they were filming my segment.

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Zak George and Mr. Wilson


Mr. Wilson is a good dog, and to keep him so training is key. He doesn't want to run around like a wild animal any more than we want him to act that way, so training is imperative. We found Zak George on YouTube, and have followed his advice ever since.

From Mr. Wilson Makes it Home, (Skyhorse Publishing, Feb. 2015) http://www.amazon.com/Mr-Wilson-Makes-Home-Happiness/dp/1629145734



 "I never wanted to control my dogs, any of them, and Mr. Wilson even less so. I like to let living things live their way, at least when it doesn’t interfere too much with my way, and the philosophy of positive training appealed to me. It can be confusing, the thought that an animal can be trained to do what he needs to do to have a better life being accomplished by taking things away in a positive way nearly drove me nuts until I was able to comprehend it. If a dog; say an incredibly cute Schnoodle named Mr. Wilson for instance wants to walk around the neighborhood, and sniff and pee and say hello to the other dogs doing much the same, he needs to do so in a way that does not impinge on the rights of all the other dogs and dog walkers. By letting him live life his way, and running around like a wild animal, and jumping on people, and scaring little dogs, and some big ones the ultimate goal of true happiness is elusive. By learning and following some simple rules all of our lives are much more serene and satisfying."

     Doing things with the help of an expert is much more fun and effective than going it alone. And, Mr. Wilson pays attention when Zak is on TV, then already knows what is expected of him when we get to work!


Monday, March 17, 2014

Forgiveness

Is the ability to forgive something that must be learned, or is it part of all living things? Somebody treated Ole' Mr. Wilson badly, and he might have not forgiven that person, but there isn't a speck of resentment or bitterness in that little brain of his. He's gotten over the pain that put him on the road around this time last year when a nice lady from Arkansas rescued him and began the process that ended when he arrived here.

I'm glad he has the  ability to forgive, for forgiveness releases us from our past and allows us to experience life fresh every day, and to cast off the baggage that accumulates as life progresses. Pain, lonliness and sorrow are heavy burdens to bear. Not that long ago a little dog was chained to a coal stove in a cold barn with icicles frozen to his face and no food to eat or water to drink, but he managed to let that all go, and to accept the gifts that destiny had in store for him.

It would be a terrible thing to live here, in our home, with all of the love and food and water and acceptance anybody could imagine, and to not be able to bask in it, and enjoy it, and know that it is real, because it IS real, just as real as that old coal stove, only the stove is gone, and the love is eternal.